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Me Time

September 28th, 2017

As I sit before class, I wonder when was the last time I did something for myself? Or better yet when did I stop and just look around me?

We spend too often going forward with classes, homework, studying, exams, jobs and trying to have a social life that we lose ourselves. I'm saying we fall off the bandwagon and have a breakdown (that's okay, too) but we lose sight of what makes us happy.

These moments are few and far between but something about them is so blissful. To have time to stop and think about the good things in life or blessings we have. I've been able to reflect on the incredible people the Lord has put in my life to make memories and laughs with.

For example, my A team is fantastic. These two girls crack me up with their laughs, our time together as friends and even the time we spend together tutoring. I've seen what it looks like to make an impression and friendship that lasts. For a split second, I think about graduating and realize that I'm going to miss them a lot.

However, in the time with others it is important to take time for yourself. Self-care is so important and whether you have an hour or two to devote or only a few seconds throughout the day. Whatever step you can take matters.

How much you time do you have in your life?

xoxo,
Em

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