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Anchors

November 10, 2017

I have never been the cliche white girl obsessed with anchors. In fact, I have never truly been a fan of them overall but something about them has rang true today. Amidst the chaos that is life, I have found people who are anchors in my life.

People who weather the storm with you. People who remind you why you get up everyday. People who remind you why you are doing what you want to do what you are. Sometimes that can be a huge blessing in disguise that we often overlook.

Maybe for you it's a sibling, a best friend, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or in my case a new friend. My Birthday Buddy has become a new friend that I can depend on when need it. He has truly been this blessing in disguise of how the Lord can work in mysterious ways.

I have officially decided he is a male version of me almost exactly. Yet, he is so different and is a source of clarity when I need it. We laugh and screw around to destress when we both are read to throw ourselves off a building. Fun fact: being science majors is not easy. We are learning that the hard way but we are making it.

I encourage you to find someone that makes everyday worth it. It does not have to be a boyfriend or girlfriend but people that just make you feel better about your life. People that pour into you in ways that make you feel worth it.

Who is anchoring you in your life?

xoxo,
Em

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